please give your advice!?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years, at the start he cheated on me and I forgave him but it seems to be every year he wants to cheat but he says he doesn’t know why. We were going through a tough time last year and wasn’t sure if we should be together but he said he does want to be with me and he wanted us to have a family so we started trying for a baby. I fell pregnant and through the whole pregnancy he was really supportive but since I had her 7 weeks ago all he’s been doing is trying to meet other females. I just got told I scored high on the postnatal depression quiz and I have the doctor next week but I just feel so horrible about myself. I have no self-esteem and I feel worthless but I love him so much and I feel like I can’t cope on my own. What would you do?
Its going to be hard, but you have to dump this guy. If you are being seen by a doctor for postpartum depression, now is the time to take care of yourself and your baby. This guy seems to be using you for whatever reason and now you have a child. I frankly don’t think he will stick around that long. He wants to keep you on the sidelines while he is still looking for the next best thing.
I would concentrate on caring for yourself and your baby, it will be hard being a single mom, but you can do this. You owe it to yourself and your baby to be happy and healthy, not waiting around for someone who clearly does not respect you or his child.
Hope this helps and good luck!
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